Secrets of Life & Love ...

This blog is specially for all my friends that are having problems in life and love. Actually u need not to care bout what I wrote here. Hehe. Maybe these are just merely some useless craps for you. Because these are just from my perspective for life & love..

Hmm.. talk bout life.. I think that when one grows older, the more problems will be encountered. For example, my journey from standard one til form 5.. my path was just so so smooth. Too smooth to hav probs. I thought my life will just be that simple..simple simple life! But when I step into form 6.. only realised what is so-called 'LIFE'.

Life is frankly n seriously ..very cruel. Don't believe? u can just ask yourself. U think your life is perfect? huh>? Life's imperfect, my dear frens. Life is full of challenges & obstacles for us to overcome. My sixth form's journey, almost one year d. But, in this one-year time.. so many unwanted things happened. But what to do? u kenot just block all the probs by your hands n say "No no.. i dont want all these!" Right?

But actually if we think carefully, all the problems in our life were created by ourselves -- Human. Species namely homosapiens.

"The best portions of a good man's life --- his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love." - William Wordsworth

Actually we ourselves can make life easier depends on what situation we encountered. When we face an arguement, consideration n generousity will do ; When we encountered betrayer, forgiveness will do. and so so many more. You may think this is ridiculous rite? You may think: It's easy to say, but it's not easy to do it. Yea, that's right! even myself also did the same mistakes all over again in my life. Only in the end, regreted what I've done. But the one who hurts is i myself. Then I will think bout 2 words. "What if .... .... ..." "What if ... ... " Haih.. why human's like dat? after all the thgs happened only know how to think .. and human will repeat the same mistake again nxt time. Why? Human are born to be contradicter issit? or what?

Now im giving opinions for u guys. But i kenot even sure that whether i will think that wisely when somethg happened to me. That's just ME -- Kenny Wong Siew Foo. A contradicter. Ok, back to the topic... Take "what if" out of your vocabulary. Life is linear, not circular. We cant go back, so we might as well just go on with our life. Actually we can be positive, even about the negative circumstances in our life. The main pt is just.. depends on ourselves.. whether we want to be positive anot? It's our own choice. But, for me.. even I intended to forget bout the past.. but i understand it's hard. Im sayin all these good advices but myself cant accept them. What a contradiction? Lol=P okok.. continue. Look thru the windshield, not the rearview mirror.

Ok, dat's bout the past. Erm, one more thing, don't be afraid to cry. You may think, huh? a guy who cry is useless. but for me, it's not! U know what, we [guys] are much betta at emotions now. In days of old, when a grown man cried he was considered weak. Now, lettin our emotions show is often considered a sign of strength. A sign of passion. Guys with tears are guys with passions. Some may think crying is useless.. it can't help in anythg. But, Each emotion plays a part in our overall mental health. I don't deny that Im emotional. I can cry easily. I will cry when i think of my past.. when im sad.. when i lost a fren or loved one.. when im touched.. when im too happy [u may think this is weird, last time i used to think like dat, but not until it realli happened on me]..

* Dont be afraid to show ur emotions. Dont be afraid to laugh. Laughter is a way of relievin tension; Dont be afraid to cry. Tears are way of drainin off excess hurt; Dont be afraid to get angry. Anger is given to preserve safety. *

There are so many types of ppl i faced recently. But i just hope they know life isn't a one-man show. It's a drama played out with other actors. The way u interact with others will mean the difference in ur success or failure. Actually, we shud learn some "acting skills". Learn how to play off other ppl's lines. If they are angry, we must calm. If they are in trauma, we must be tender. Remember, dont make it worser.. i've done it plenty of times. it's hurting. It's betta to be frens than enemy rite? dat's y i seldom angry in my whole life. Even my frens betrayed me, in the end, is myself who apologised n said.. "we're stil best frens.." it's no good having enemies in ur life. Life realli is a stage. Perform well before the curtain falls.

UrGhh, i think it's too long rite? there are still many thgs i wanted to mention here bout life but i think i'll stop here. ish.. havent touch bout love part though.. nvm.. to be continued.